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Brooke’s Wedding Adventures (entry no. 5)

Hey friend!

Today I wanted to talk about the vendors I am using for my wedding and the various ways I’ve included my family and friends in our wedding!

Below is a list of some of the Lynchburg vendors we have booked:

Venue: Old Pate Chapel & The Bottling Co.
Catering: Charley’s Restaurant and Catering
Bubble Tea Bar: Paragon Tea Co.
Florist: Kathryn’s Flower & Gift Shop

Below is a list of the vendor services/businesses owned by some of my friends and family:

Photography: Lane J Photography
Centerpieces/Reception Florist: Bouquets for the Holidays
Cake/Dessert: Emma’s Cupcakery (Instagram – @emmas.cupcakery)

Other ways my loved ones have helped me throughout this journey include the following: planning bridal showers and parties, offering to do my makeup and hair, making a list of wedding shoe options, offering ceremony music and vocals, providing cocktail food, and even offering videography services!

Many of these services provided by our friends and family were offered at a discount or in lieu of a wedding gift. I have been incredibly blessed with many gifted and generous people in my life, and it is a dream come true to be able to receive their gifts, talents, and time to make our wedding unique and personal to us and everyone involved!

Quick note: *DO NOT EXPECT THAT JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE THEIR FAMILY/FRIEND THAT YOU WILL GET FREE OR EVEN DISCOUNTED SERVICES FROM THEM (especially if they own a professional business)*

While I have been given a great deal of generosity by so many, this does not mean it will be everyone’s experience. However, if you are financially struggling and know someone who might enjoy offering his or her services, there is a proper way to do this without taking advantage of them. Below is an example of how to respectfully and tactfully ask this:

“We wanted to ask if you would be open to the idea of offering [YOUR SERVICE] at a discounted price or in lieu of a wedding gift. We have a limited budget, but the last thing we want to do is undermine your valuable time and talent. We completely understand whatever decision you have to make!”

You will likely find that many are excited to help with even the little tasks. People love weddings, and they love feeling like they are a part of something big and special! So don’t be afraid to receive willing and helping hands – whether it’s stamping invitations, setting up decorations, throwing a DIY décor party, addressing thank-you notes, running a quick errand, etc.

I hope this blog has given you some ideas for how to be wise about your money while also finding ways to include your loved ones in the process. It has been a joy to share they ways my family and friends have supported me throughout my wedding journey.

Until next time!

Brooke

Brooke’s Wedding Adventures (entry no. 4)

Hey friend!

It’s been too long since my last letter, and so much has happened since then! But for today, I wanted to talk about what I have learned as a wedding coordinator and why I will have one for my own wedding. I also wanted to share some of the most useful resources I have found throughout my wedding planning process!

Here are the top 3 things I have learned as a wedding coordinator:

Day-of coordinators are a must-have for a stress-free wedding. At Chestnut & Vine, we meet with the couple several times before the actual wedding day so that we know exactly what they want and how to execute it smoothly and efficiently so that the bride and groom (along with their family and friends) can focus on just having a good time and savoring every moment. Our goal is to help give our couples the wedding of their dreams by organizing their vision and making it a reality.

There are many things that happen behind the scenes during a wedding that the bride will never know. I’m certain there will be things that “go wrong” on my wedding day – missing seating labels that need to be handwritten last minute, misplaced table signs that need reorganizing, unstable decorations that need fixing, guests who have insulin reactions (yes, I’ve handled all of these situations and more as a coordinator) – and I do not need to know about them when it is my turn to be a bride. ☺

Coordinators keep track of not only the big picture but also the little details that are easily forgotten (e.g. order of wedding party, whether or not there will be ushers/greeters, order of events, important contacts, place settings, song selection, etc.). Once I figure out these kinds of specifics, I can gladly pass them off to my wedding coordinator and never have to worry about keeping track of every single detail again!

My favorite wedding resources:

Jamie Wolfer’s YouTube channel and Facebook page! Jamie Wolfer is a wedding planner, who shares many tips, tricks, and advice on anything wedding related. I have learned and applied so much from her in my own wedding planning.

YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdAcY6YGgF-RgGYXTsOENbA

Facebook link: “Budget Wedding Planning Community” https://www.facebook.com/groups/theweddinghacker

The Erin Condren Wedding Planner! This planner has helped me stay organized in both my daily and wedding plans. It not only functions as a regular planner, but it also provides resources such as vendor contact lists, photography checklists, a wedding day schedule, inspirations, and note pages to keep all of your wedding ideas, contacts, etc. in one place. From vendor contact lists to photography checklists to wedding party

Erin Condren Wedding Planner: https://www.erincondren.com/wedding-planners?gclid=CjwKCAjw9r-DBhBxEiwA9qYUpcAwwdpuXmQ2K9jZjZAW_S_sNe60UvJxw-0rc0NXbmJqqr9t1JPKbxoCg08QAvD_BwE

The Knot Wedding Checklist! Caleb and I registered and created our website through The Knot and have found their wedding checklist to be very helpful in tracking the things we need to get done and when to get them done. Instead of trying to figure out and remember every single detail on our to-do list, The Knot’s wedding checklist provides all of that for us and allows us to check off things as we go!

The Knot Wedding Checklist: https://www.theknot.com/wedding-checklist-1

I hope you find some (if not all) of these thoughts and resources helpful as you continue to plan for your own special day! Next time I will catch you up on all the different vendors I’ve booked and ways I’ve included my loved ones in my wedding.

Until then!

Sincerely,

Brooke

Brooke’s Wedding Adventures (entry no. 3)

Hey friend!

Today I’m going to tell you about my wedding dress shopping experience!

I realized pretty early on how important it was to start researching and making appointments to bridal boutiques, so I started looking in February. Because I was going to school in Lynchburg and my home was in Raleigh, I decided to look for boutiques both in North Carolina and Virginia. I landed on the following options based on affordability and reputation: Church Street Bridal and Celebration Bridal in Lynchburg and David’s Bridal and Maggi Bridal in Raleigh. My first appointment was at David’s Bridal, and I decided to take my mom and sister with me. My consultant helped me search for dresses based on my description of what I wanted as well as my price range.

After trying on several dresses and getting a feel for what I liked, we made a second appointment at the same place for the following day. This time, I brought one of my bridesmaids along with my mom and sister. During this appointment, I surprisingly ended up finding the perfect dress within an affordable price range (and in my exact size)!! I knew it was the one when I saw myself smile for the first time as soon as I saw myself in the mirror. It was such a sweet moment to be able to share with my family and dear friend, and I am so excited to try it on again for the fitting appointment in a couple months!

At the end of the appointment, I officially asked my friend to be my bridesmaid (she said yes!)

A few things to note:

Not every bride finds her dress during the first couple appointments (let alone in essentially the perfect size), so do not be discouraged if this does not describe you. Everyone’s wedding journey is different – do not compare!

Remember to take into account the cost for alterations, add-ons, veil, and other extras when looking for a dress within a specific budget.

Consider wearing your makeup and hair as you potentially would for your wedding day. I made the mistake of coming in with no makeup, so it was a little tricky to envision how I would actually look for my wedding day.

After you decide on your dress, it is completely normal to have doubts on whether or not you made the right choice. You’ve made a big decision and a big purchase, so of course you’ll be tempted to second guess yourself. The bottom line is there will always be a “better-looking dress” somewhere out there. But at the end of the day, the dress you’ve chosen is perfect because it is YOUR dress that you get to wear on YOUR wedding. You will be stunning and unique because no one can wear it like you do, and that makes it complete. (And I’m sure your spouse-to-be will only see beauty as you walk down the aisle;)

HAVE FUN! You’re getting married! This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to be spoiled by friends and family and dress like a queen, so just enjoy yourself!

Best of luck to you all as you continue searching and planning towards your big day! See you soon!

Warmly,

Brooke

Brooke’s Wedding Adventures (entry no. 2)

Hey friend!

Today I want to talk about the early stages of my planning process.

The first thing we did after getting engaged was set a specific budget for our entire wedding.

After setting our budget, we were quick to secure our venue and set a date. We did this for a couple reasons: 1) The venue is one of the most important aspects of wedding planning (if you don’t have a place, how will you have a wedding??); 2) Venues get booked rather quickly, especially in a COVID world, and we wanted to make sure we got one that suited our style and budget; 3) We needed to plan around our families’ schedules as well as our college schedules, and having a date and location as soon as possible was very helpful. We looked at venues both in North Carolina (where my family and I are currently from) and Virginia (where Caleb and I go to college) and eventually decided on the beautiful Old Pate Chapel and The Bottling Company – a ceremony and reception space just ten minutes away from Liberty University!

Next, we began creating and narrowing a guest list. We both have large families, and our venue has a capacity limit, so this was a harder process than anticipated. We had to meet with each other several times to talk through or update the list before finalizing it. HELPFUL TIP: We created a spreadsheet of all our potential guests and categorized them into lists of priority (columns A, B, and C). This made it easy for us to see all our guests’ names and maneuver them as needed. For example, we knew that no matter what, our entire family would be invited to the wedding, so we added them to column A. On the other hand, we had several coworkers or high school friends with whom we were not as close. Even though it would be an absolute joy to have them at our wedding, they were not the highest priority on our extensive list and so were added to column B. Column C was almost like an “overflow” during the brainstorming process and included people who were not a part of our lives anymore but who we would love to invite if there was a possibility. If a space opened up in column A (e.g. if we were certain someone from that column would not be able to attend), we would move people from column B into that column A and so on.

(SIDE NOTE: If you have a guest limit due to COVID, capacity maximum, or just personal preference, do not feel guilty for not inviting certain people! This is your special day, and while it is wise to be aware and considerate of the people who are invited vs. those who are not, you ultimately have the final say in who you want present on possibly the most important day of your life!)

In the middle of picking the venue and putting the guest list together, I also started brainstorming my color scheme. I already knew I wanted to incorporate emerald green, but I went back and forth about what secondary or accent colors would look best. We finally decided on emerald green and midnight blue as the main colors with accents of gold and wine in the décor, and we love how they all look together!

In my next entry, I’ll be sharing my experience with wedding dress searching and shopping – when I started, who came with me, how many I tried, etc. I can’t wait to share it all with you! Until then!

Warmly,

Brooke

Brooke’s Wedding Adventures (entry no. 1)

Hello friend!

My name is Brooke, and I am Chestnut & Vine’s intern/blogger and a newly engaged bride! Having worked multiple weddings with Chestnut & Vine, I not only get to share my perspective “behind the scenes,” but I also get to experience this exciting journey as a fellow bride! Throughout this series, I will share my many ups and downs of wedding planning as a full-time college student, and I cannot wait to walk through this crazy adventure with you!

If you’re anything like me, you want to create the wedding of your dreams without needing to spend boatloads of money for every single detail. Now that I’m paying my way through college, our wedding budget is especially limited, so we’ve had to get creative through the process. I knew right away that I wanted to utilize the skills and help of my friends and family as much as possible, not only because weddings are expensive, but also because they take a LOT of work. I also knew that I wanted to make our wedding a personal experience for everyone attending our celebration, and incorporating some of our loved ones’ talents is such a beautiful yet practical way of doing this. You will in upcoming blogs exactly how we make this happen!

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How We Met:

My fiancé Caleb and I first met the day my family moved to North Carolina when he and his dad, along with several others from their church, helped us move in. I still remember the little 12-year-old boy introducing himself to 13-year-old me in the storage unit (little did we know we’d just met our future spouse…) We got to know each other more through church and youth activities, and our families

became friends over the years. We (finally) started dating five years later in 2018, and he (finally) proposed two and a half years later on January 3, 2021 on the lake during a family vacation! About two weeks later, I started my first semester as a theatre major at Liberty University in Virginia, and Caleb and I entered our first long-distance relationship together. Needless to say, it’s not my favorite thing.

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While the past several months of getting engaged, moving to college, and planning a wedding have certainly had their crazy moments, I am so excited to see how everything has come together and am honored that I get to share it all with you!

See you soon!

Warmly,

Brooke

Wedding Songs Series – Reception Songs

The music you choose for your wedding is what sets the tone for every moment of your big celebration. However, trying to find the perfect songs for your special day can be a bit overwhelming. That’s why we’ve put together a list of song and soundtrack options for you to use throughout your entire wedding! From the moment you walk down the aisle to tearing it up on the dance floor, we’ve selected a variety of meaningful and entertaining songs to make your wedding day unique to you and memorable for everyone!

This week we are featuring RECEPTION SONGS:

Fun/Upbeat Songs for All Ages

1. Classic – MKTO

2. Billie Jean – Michael Jackson

3. Single Ladies – Beyonce

4. 24K Magic – Bruno Mars

5. Yeah! – Usher

6. Party Rock Anthem – LMFAO

7. Uptown Funk – Mark Ronson, Bruno Mars

8. Dancing Queen – ABBA

9. Turn Down for What – DJ Snake, Lil Jon

10. Shut Up and Dance – WALK THE MOON

11. Don’t Stop ‘Til You Get Enough – Michael Jackson

12. This Is How We Do It – Montell Jordan

13. I Wanna Dance with Somebody – Whitney Houston

14. Hips Don’t Lie – Shakira

15. Best Song Ever – One Direction

16. Proud Mary – Ike & Tina Turner

17. Hair Up – Justin Timberlake, Gwen Stefani, Ron Funches

18. Love Shack – The B-52’s

19. Dear Future Husband – Meghan Trainor

20. I’m Gonna Be (500 Miles) – The Proclaimers

21. Shake It Off – Taylor Swift

22. Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours) – Stevie Wonder

23. Problem – Ariana Grande, Iggy Azalea (2 Rocking Chairs – Jon Bellion)

24. Crazy Beautiful – Andy Grammer

25. Worth It – Fifth Harmony, Kid Ink

26. It Takes Two – Rob Base & DJ EZ Rock

27. Church Clap – KB, Lecrae

28. I Gotta Feeling – Black Eyed Peas

29. Genetics – Meghan Trainor

30. Don’t Stop Believin’ – Journey

Line Dance Songs

1. Wobble – V.I.C.

2. Wop – J. Dash ft. Flo Rida

3. Cupid Shuffle – Cupid

4. Bikers Shuffle – Big Mucci

5. The Git Up – Blanco Brown

6. Cha Cha Slide – Mr. C

7. Electric Boogie – Marcia Griffiths

8. Cotton Eye Joe – Rednex

9. Footloose – Kenny Loggins

10. Watch Me (Whip/Nae Nae) – Silento

Slow Songs

1. I’ve Got You Under My Skin – Frank Sinatra

2. You Make Me Feel So Young – Frank Sinatra

3. Quando, Quando, Quando – Michael Buble, Nelly Furtado

4. My Eyes Adored You – Harrison Craig

5. A Kiss to Build a Dream On – Louis Armstrong

6. Dream a Little Dream of Me – The Mamas & the Papas

7. Everybody Loves Somebody – Dean Martin

8. We Are in Love – Harry Connick, Jr.

9. Photograph – Stacey Kent

10. Unforgettable – Nat King Cole, Natalie Cole

Wedding Songs Series – Ceremony Processional

This week we are featuring CEREMONY PROCESSIONAL SONGS:

1. Heaven’s Knife – Josh Garrels

2. A Thousand Dreams – Christina Perri

3. A Million Dreams – The Piano Guys

4. Unchained Melody (cello version) – Nicholas Gold

5. You are the Reason – Calum Scott

6. Turning Page – Sleeping at Last

7. Perfect – The Piano Guys

8. Marry Me – Train

9. Butterfly Waltz – Brian Crain

10. Ave Maria – Brooklyn Duo

11. Canon in D (Pachelbel’s Canon) – Brooklyn Duo

Photographs Courtesy of Natalie E Photography

Wedding Songs Series – Parent Dances

This week we are featuring FATHER/DAUGHTER and MOTHER/SON SONGS:

Father/Daughter Dance:

1. My Little Girl – Tim McGraw

2. I Loved Her First – Heartland

3. You Must Have Been a Beautiful Baby – Bing Crosby

4. Isn’t She Lovely – Stevie Wonder

5. Butterfly Kisses – Bob Carlisle

6. I Just Called to Say I Love You – Stevie Wonder

7. First Man – Camilla Cabello

8. Cinderella – Steven Curtis Chapman

9. It’s for My Dad – Nancy Sinatra

10. Wildflowers – Tom Petty

11. Stand By Me – Ben E. King

Mother/Son Dance:

1. You’ll Be in My Heart – Phil Collins

2. Mom – Meghan Trainor

3. The First Lady in My Life – Paul Todd

4. Close Your Eyes – Michael Bubé

5. You Will Always Be My Son – Caleb & Kelsey

6. A Song for Mama – Boyz II Men

7. Wind Beneath My Wings – Bette Midler

8. (They Long to Be) Close to You – Carpenters

9. Becoming Me – Matthew West, Lulu West

10. The Perfect Fan – Backstreet Boys

Photos Courtesy of Michelle Elyse Photography | Joe Payne Photography | A.J. Dunlap Photography – Jenna Goetz

Meet Our “Friendor”: Wedded Kiss

FRIENDOR FEATURE SERIES

feat. Wedded Kiss | Nina McCaskey, Owner

Website: weddedkiss.com

Instagram: @weddedkiss

Services/Products Offered: Hair and makeup for weddings, events, shoots, and more!

Number of Years in Business: 14 total; 6 as Wedded Kiss

Number of Members on Team: 9

Describe the experience you want your clients to receive when working with you and your company: We strive to do not only gorgeous work but create a very fun experience while getting glammed up!

What are some questions that couples should ask when interviewing you and other companies that offer services in your line of business? Our FAQ is full of great questions. We send it out to all potential clients.

Wh at price range should clients expect to pay for professional, quality services in your line of business? Bridal starts at $350 and our minimum for Saturdays is bridal plus 5 additional packages.

What sets your services apart from your competitors? The whole team had intensive amounts of training and years in the field. No one on our team is a newbie. Everyone is a lead artist/stylist. Also we are like a lot of freakin’ fun!

What do you enjoy most about your line of work? Making people feel incredible!

Is there anything else you would like couples to know about you and/or your company?

We are incredibly detailed about the schedule and timing for the day. We will always strive to be perfectly on-time.

If you had a month to go on vacation anywhere in the world, where would you go and what would you do? Ireland. IT IS ALWAYS IRELAND! It is my Disney world!

Chestnut & Vine’s “Friendor Feature Series” showcases our talented vendor friends (“friendors”) who share our passion for weddings, strive for excellence, have big hearts and are always fun to be around. In this Q&A-style blog, we hope to provide you with a more personal look into the heartbeat and purpose behind their highly respected business.

Meet Our “Friendor” – Elizabeth Ashley & Co.

Chestnut & Vine’s “Friendor” Feature Series

feat. ELIZABETH ASHLEY & CO. | E. Ashley Green, Owner

Website: www.elizabethashleyco.com

Instagram: @elizabethashleyco

Services/Products Offered: Wedding Photography, Engagement Sessions, Bridal Sessions, Boudoir Sessions, Branding & Lifestyle Sessions.

Number of Years in Business: 10

Number of Members on Your Team: 10

Describe the experience you want your clients to receive when working with you and your company: We want you to feel like our only client. We customize each session and package just for you, so you can have photos exactly how you’d like.

What are some questions that couples should ask when interviewing you and other companies that offer services in your line of business? Ask about the process, we allow you to select your images immediately after or on your time. Ask about staff and turn-around time.

What price range should clients expect to pay for professional, quality services in your line of business? $500 – for sessions. Minimum of $2000 for Wedding Photography.

What sets your services apart from your competitors? Our lovely studio is a comfortable space for each client to come get pampered before the session and also select images right after. We cater to YOU! Our staff sets us apart. (Meet them here!)

What do you enjoy most about your line of work? LOVE!

Is there anything else you would like couples to know about you and/or your company? I still get excited to photograph love. I’m a hopeless romantic and I can’t wait to serve you and your families!

If you had a month to go on vacation anywhere in the world, where would you go and what would you do? I’d love to return to Barbados, where we had a wedding a few years ago. It was so beautiful. I would take photos and rest!

Wedding Songs Series – Newlyweds’ First Dance

This week we are featuring FIRST DANCE SONGS:

1. Conversations in the Dark – John Legend

2. I Get to Love You – Ruelle

3. A Million Dreams – from The Greatest Showman

4. Can’t Help Falling in Love – Haley Reinhart

5. Speechless – Dan + Shay

6. Tuesdays (String Version) – Jake Scott

7. Lover – First Dance Remix – Taylor Swift

8. Grow as We Go – Ben Platt

9. In My Arms – Jon Foreman

10. Kiss Me – Kina Grannis

11. Beauty and the Beast – Celine Dion, Peabo Bryson

12. Grand Adventure – JJ Heller

13. Love – Nancy Adams

14. Everything – Michael Bublé

15. Can’t Take My Eyes Off You – Joseph Vincent

16. Our First Song – Joseph Vincent

17. Wonderful Tonight – Michael Bublé, Ivan Lins

18. Close Your Eyes – Michael Bublé

19. Incredible – James TW

20. Kiss the Girl – Samuel E. Wright

21. Here in My Arms – Leon Bridges

22. Darlin’ – Dante Bowe

23. This Band of Gold – Will Hopkins

24. Two Becoming One – Jonathan and Emily Martin

25. Safe – Antoine Bradford

26. I’m Yours/Somewhere Over the Rainbow – Straight No Chaser

Photos Courtesy of The Stewarts Roam | Fire Rose Photography | JCM Photography | Richard Barlow Photography

Carrie & Grady’s Romantic Fall Wedding in Downtown Raleigh, NC

Nothing is more beautiful than a bride’s smile on her wedding day, and Carrie’s enthusiastic smile shined from her early morning makeup session with Be Pretty Charlotte to the celebratory sparkler exit as she enjoyed every moment of her and Grady’s magical day. Carrie & Grady’s love for one another was undeniable to everyone who gathered to celebrate with them, which is why so many of their friends and family didn’t hesitate to travel from far and wide to take part in their important day.

On a sunny afternoon in downtown Raleigh, The Glass Box provided the perfect backdrop for both the Father-Daughter and the Bride & Groom’s First Look Photos. While the wedding party took pre-ceremony photos with Michelle Elyse Photography among the rooftops, the talented Mother of the Groom completed the finishing touches for the ceremony florals and decor she designed three floors below in The Stockroom at 230.

Following their beautiful, intimate, sunlit ceremony, guests were treated to cocktail and dinner receptions expertly prepared and served by the Empire Eats Catering team. In a unique twist to the traditional wedding party reception introductions, each bridesmaid and groomsman was introduced individually with a personal bio cleverly written by the newlyweds. The smiles and laughter that the personalized intros brought to each wedding party member were not only priceless, but set the tone for the fun, energetic evening that was to follow.

Thank you, Carrie and Brady, for entrusting us with your wedding day, which was so full of love that by the end of the night the entire Chestnut & Vine team felt like we were members of your family, too! May your bright smiles and love for one another continue to radiate throughout your entire lives together.

All Photos Courtesy of Michelle Elyse Photography

Carrie & Grady’s All-Star Vendor Team

Photographer: Michelle Elyse Photography

Venue: The Stockroom at 230

Day-of Wedding Coordination: Chestnut & Vine Wedding Logistics Coordinators

Caterer: Empire Eats Catering

Officiant: Mike Bourla

DJ: Steve Duncan

Emcee: Joe Hagan

Florals & Decor: Karen O’Brien

Hair/Makeup: Be Pretty Charlotte

Bridal Suite: The Glass Box

Rentals: CE Rental

Ashley & Ethan Fall Wedding at The Bradford | New Hill, NC

College friends who fell in love after reuniting several years after graduation, Ashley and Ethan knew that they wanted to throw a party for the ages to celebrate their marriage, and they succeeded in showing their family and friends an unforgettable wedding day. The sun shined brightly on the stunning grounds of The Bradford, a European countryside inspired wedding venue located in New Hill, NC, as did the smiles of the bride, groom and their wedding party. Ashley and Ethan’s charismatic personalities were evident in every aspect of their wedding, from the personalized wedding party gifts to the radiant florals designed by Bloom Works to the hot pink sunglasses they wore as they recessed down the aisle as husband and wife. Guests were treated to a decadent meal prepared by Catering Works and a stunning 4-tier white wedding cake with gorgeous pink, peach and green florals designed by Pastry Works.

The day’s highlights included Ethan’s gift to Ashley- a book written by the groom entitled “The Reasons Why”, having their ceremony officiated by a close family friend, the bride and groom “making it rain” on the dance floor with Cash Cannons, a late night black and white sweets bar, and DJ Willis keeping the party going full speed until the very end.

Congratulations, Ashley and Ethan! We will never forget your contagious laughter, radiant smiles and kind, loving hearts. Thank you for trusting Chestnut & Vine to coordinate your dream wedding.

Photos Courtesy of FireRose Photography

Ashley & Ethan’s All-Star Wedding Team

Photographer: FireRose Photography

Day-of Wedding Coordination: Chestnut & Vine Wedding Logistics Coordinators

Venue: The Bradford

Caterer/Bar: Catering Works

Officiant: Elaine Kaplelanski

DJ: Willis J. Entertainment

Tent/Linen/Dinnerware Rentals: Grand Rental Station

Hair/Makeup: The Makeup Addict

Florals: Bloom Works

Cake/Desserts: Pastry Works

Decor Rentals: Greenhouse Picker Sisters

Photo Booth: Spark Photo Booth

Transportation: Homewood Suites Raleigh/Cary

James & Jess’s Provincial Downtown Wedding | Jiddi Space & Courtyard | Raleigh, NC

College sweethearts from Michigan, James and Jess decided to start their lives as husband and wife in the state where they got engaged during a trip to the mountains and now call home thanks to a career opportunity that brought them to Raleigh, NC. Hoping to find a wedding venue with an urban edge that encapsulated their adventurous spirit, the Jiddi Space & Courtyard, with its provincial red brick and market lights quietly tucked away in downtown Raleigh, was the perfect location for the intimate wedding they both envisioned.

Jess’s smile radiated as she walked down the aisle in her blush wedding gown that perfectly complimented her gorgeous auburn locks, and James killed it in his tailored navy suit and sage green tie. The newlyweds took full advantage of their downtown surroundings by having Asheville based photographers The Stewarts Roam photograph the newlyweds in an array of unique urban settings before and after their ceremony. During the cocktail and dinner receptions, guests enjoyed savory Lebanese dishes from Sitti, one of Raleigh’s most popular restaurants and even witnessed one of the greatest toasts ever to be delivered by a Best Man. Later in the evening, DJ Pdogg kept the party going on the outdoor dance floor until it was time to wish the newlyweds well and send them off on their next big adventure.

Congratulations, Mr. & Mrs. Majewski! We had so much fun getting to know you and helping your wedding vision turn out perfectly. Enjoy all of your future adventures!

P.S. Jess – you will forever be my “logistics soulmate.”

Photographs Courtesy of The Stewarts Roam

James & Jess’s All-Star Wedding Team

Photographers: The Stewarts Roam

Day-of Wedding Coordination: Chestnut & Vine Wedding Logistics Coordinators

Venue: Jiddi Space & Courtyard

Caterer: Sitti

Officiant: Rev Ron Weddings

DJ: DJ Pdogg

Florals: Fallon’s Flowers of Raleigh

Cake: Dolce Desserts Co.

Hair/Makeup: Silverceiling

Transportation: The Great Raleigh Trolley

Bride’s Dress: Allure Romance

Bride’s Shoes: Betsey Johnson

Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Birdy Grey

Groom’s Suit: Generation Tux

Groom’s Watch: LuxWoods

Sarah & Patrick’s Summer Wedding at Duke Chapel & Gardens | Durham, NC

Duke University has always held a special place in Sarah’s heart. Having parents who attended Duke University and got married in Duke Chapel, she was raised on Duke Basketball and always looked forward to family trips to visit the gorgeous campus famous for its gardens and gothic buildings. So when Sarah and Patrick decided to take a short detour to Durham, NC during a road trip from Florida to New York so that Patrick could see the campus for the first time, Patrick knew that Duke Gardens was the perfect place to propose to the love of his life.

Just over a year later, Sarah and Patrick made another memorable trip to Duke University, but this time they were joined by their family and friends to commemorate their next life adventure as husband and wife. Their wedding weekend began when their entire wedding party loaded onto a chartered bus that took them from Jacksonville, FL to Durham, NC, and since the majority of their guests were also from out-of-town, they smartly used the same chartered bus to transport everyone throughout the weekend to the rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, ceremony and reception. On the day of their wedding, Patrick and Sarah saw each other for the first time on the bridge in Duke Gardens where they became engaged, and the highlight of the weekend, of course, was when Sarah’s father walked his daughter down the aisle of Duke Chapel so that she, too, could be married where her parents’ story began.

Following a beautiful ceremony officiated by Rev. Kevin Holland, guests made their way to Kirby Horton Hall at Duke Gardens where they enjoyed delicious dinner stations expertly prepared by Catering Works and a Pastry Works dessert bar that was a sweets lover’s dream. Willis J. Entertainment had everyone dancing late into the night until it was time for Sarah and Patrick to close out their reception with a private newlyweds’ dance on the Piva Terrace under the bright summer stars.

Sarah and Patrick’s wedding day was everything they had hoped for and more, and we are so grateful that Chestnut & Vine got to help them make it happen. Cheers, Mr. & Mrs. Kennedy! We loved working with you and enjoyed seeing your endless smiles throughout the entire weekend!

All Photos Courtesy of We Are The Bowsers

Sarah & Patrick’s All-Star Wedding Team

Photographer/Videographer: We Are The Bowsers

Day-of Wedding Coordination: Chestnut & Vine Wedding Logistics Coordinators

Ceremony Venue: Duke Chapel

Officiant: Personal Weddings of North Carolina

Reception Venue: Sarah P. Duke Gardens

Caterer: Catering Works

Florals: Tre Bella Florist

DJ: Willis J. Entertainment

Cake: Pastry Works

Lighting: Get Lit Event Lighting

Bride’s Hair/Makeup: Maranda Brown

Bridesmaids’ Hair: Mena Garcia

Wedding Dress: Kleinfeld New York City

Linen/Dinnerware Rentals: CE Rental

Transportation: A Charter World

Calvin & Morgan – Elegant Summer Wedding | Hillsborough, NC

College sweethearts who met at Barton College, Morgan and Calvin started their forever together on a beautiful summer evening in front of their closest family and friends at The Cloth Mill at Eno River in Hillsborough, NC. Guided by Morgan’s impressive talent for organization and attention to detail, they planned their elegant dream wedding all while Morgan started a new nursing position and Calvin completed his graduate degree in chemical engineering at NC State, and their day could not have been more perfect!

Their entire wedding day was filled with smiles and laughter, which Jennifer and Joe from JCM Photography captured flawlessly. Morgan and Calvin’s navy, dusty blue, dusty rose and quartz color palette was the perfect complement to The Cloth Mill’s industrial brick backdrop, and Morgan was absolutely breathtaking as she walked down the aisle in her stunning lace wedding gown. Guests were treated to a delicious meal prepared by Hillsborough’s own Beau Catering, and Vic from All Events DJs had no problem getting this dancing crowd out on the dance floor for hours of fun. Morgan’s Grandmother hands down won the VIP award for Most Fun as she showed the younger generations how to own the dance floor.

Thank you, Morgan and Calvin, for trusting Chestnut & Vine to make your wedding plans happen just as you envisioned. The two of you make an awesome team and will without a doubt accomplish the goals you have set for yourselves. We are grateful to have played a part at the beginning of your loving marriage. Best wishes!

Morgan & Calvin’s All-Star Wedding Team

Venue/Bar Service: The Cloth Mill at Eno River

Photographer: JCM Photography

Videographer: Dogwood Media

Day-of Coordinator: Chestnut & Vine Wedding Logistics Coordinators

Caterer: Beau Catering

Florals: Tre Bella

DJ/Ceremony Sound: All Events DJs

Hair/Makeup: Perfection by Patricia

Officiant: Michelle Wawrzyniak

Cake: Rachel Bailey

Linens/Dinnerware Rentals: CE Rental

Draping: Showtime Events

All Photographs Graciously Shared by JCM Photography

Cassidy & Tyler’s Industrial Chic Wedding | Hillsborough, NC

A new job, a new city, planning a wedding, and packing for a move from Florida to D.C., all while a hurricane approached the Atlantic Coastline, did not faze these East Carolina University Alumni from throwing a celebration for the ages. Cassidy and Tyler’s tenacity and positive attitudes were rewarded with a gorgeous Fall wedding day under vibrant Carolina blue skies. The festivities began at The Washington Duke Inn in Durham, NC where the bride, groom and wedding party got ready in two of the Inn’s luxury suites before heading down to the WaDuke’s beautiful grounds for the First Look and wedding party photos and film taken by Richard Barlow Photography and Oak City Films.

Cassidy and Tyler were later married at The Cloth Mill at Eno River in Hillsborough, NC in front of their families and friends by the Bride’s uncle. Some of the sweetest moments included their adorable flower girls and ring bearers, the mothers of both the bride and the groom processing down the aisle together, and the groom escorting the couple’s pride and joy, Raleigh, down the aisle to take her rightful place with the rest of the wedding party. There were few dry eyes among the guests when the stunning bride walked down the aisle with her father as a string trio played in the background. After the bride and groom were pronounced husband and wife, guests were treated to a selection of savory hor d’oeuvres expertly prepared by Catering Works while they listened to the music of Ron and Donna Davis, who were also good friends of the newlyweds.

Cassidy and Tyler brought an elevated elegance to their reception by using a combination of round tables, long tables, hightop tables and a king’s banquet table for their guests’ seating. Each table was named in honor of a city that held a special meaning to the couple. Catering Works out did themselves with a delicious array of food stations that included a colorful, decadent antipasto display. After dinner, Sweetwater Junction amped-up excitement by getting the newlyweds and guests on to the dance floor for a non-stop dance party. If guests found themselves in need of a short dance break, they were encouraged to help themselves to cake and donuts by Pastry Works, an expertly made cappuccino from Espresso Events Catering and Chick-fil-a sandwiches to curb their late night munchies.

The most memorable part of the evening came when all East Carolina graduates were called to the dance floor for an ECU Alumni Photo. Just as the photo was to be taken, Cassidy and Tyler were informed that a special guest wanted to be a part of the photo as well. The newlyweds’ were blown away when ECU’s own Pee Dee The Pirate came racing out to their alma mater’s fight song. These two loyal Pirates could not have asked for a more perfect way to end their incredible dream wedding thanks to some generous friends.

Congratulations, Cassidy and Tyler! Thank you for allowing Chestnut & Vine to be a part of your wedding story. It was an honor getting to know you both and to share in the joy of your first day of marriage.

Click here to experience Cassidy & Tyler’s Wedding Day as captured by Oak City Films

All Photos Courtesy of Richard Barlow Photography

Cassidy & Tyler’s All-Star Vendor Team

Venue: The Cloth Mill at Eno River

Photographer: Richard Barlow Photography

Videographer: Oak City Films

Wedding Coordinator: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Catering: Catering Works

Officiant: Jack Cloninger, Esq.

Reception Entertainment: Sweetwater Junction

Cocktail Reception Entertainment: Ron & Donna Davis

Ceremony Musicians: Ashley Kovacs

Bar Service: The Cloth Mill at Eno River

Florals: The Foraged South

Hair & Makeup: The Makeup Addict

Coffee Cart: Event Espresso Catering

Cake: Pastry Works

Linen and Dinnerware Rentals: CE Rental

Draping: Showtime Events

Specialty Decor Rentals: The Greenhouse Picker Sisters

Getting Ready Suites: The Washington Duke Inn

Transportation: S & H Transportation

Erin & Mike’s Romantic Woodland Inspired Wedding | The Fairview | Raleigh, NC

As soon as I met Erin and Mike, I knew they were a friendly, upbeat couple who were going to throw an unforgettably fun wedding, and they did not disappoint! The fact that the couple first met on St. Patrick’s Day made me love them even more!

Erin and Mike were married before their family and friends at Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral in Raleigh, NC, whose stunning sanctuary rivals the best cathedrals in Europe. After taking post-ceremony photos around Raleigh with their wedding party and sweet dachshund, Snickerdoodles, the newlyweds joined their guests at The Fairview for a Woodland inspired cocktail and dinner reception designed entirely by the bride herself.

Erin got the idea for a Woodland themed wedding reception when she was captivated by a hedgehog planter at Pier 1 Imports. She quickly figured out how many she would need, located stores across the country that still had them, and recruited her friends who lived near those stores to acquire them. The end result were whimsical centerpieces beautifully accented with baby’s breath and floral arrangements designed by The English Garden. The wooden stands and candle boxes that completed the look were built by the couple and an assembly line of family members. Two of their most unique details were the “Guest Ribbon Tree”, which came from the Matron of Honor’s backyard, and the adorable bride/groom hedgehog cakes, skillfully designed by the talented Cakes by Chloe.

Guests were treated to an elegantly plated meal expertly prepared and served by Rocky Top Catering, and Stylus S.E. kept the dance floor packed throughout the night as the newlyweds celebrated with their marriage with their closest friends and family.

Congratulations, Erin and Mike! Thank you for allowing Chestnut & Vine to be a part of your wedding day. We had a blast!

Photographs Courtesy of Joe Payne Photography

Erin & Mike’s All-Star Wedding Team

Photographer: Joe Payne Photography

Ceremony Venue: Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral

Reception Venue: The Fairview

Wedding Coordinator: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Caterer/Bar Service: Rocky Top Catering

Florals: The English Garden

DJ: Stylus S.E.

Hair/Makeup: Makeup by Ashley Mooney

Cake: Cakes by Chloe

Linen, Dinnerware and Decor Rentals: Themeworks

Transportation: North Hills Transportation

Holly & Chris’ Wedding – A Perfect Blending of Chinese Tradition and Modern Style | The Barn of Chapel Hill, NC

When it comes to weddings, everyone has an opinion, especially family members. Many times older generations think all weddings should keep to the traditions from their eras, while the engaged couple wants to have a wedding that is modern and unique to them. Holly and Chris found the perfect compromise by seamlessly blending their families’ Chinese traditions with modern elements that expressed the couple’s distinct personalities.

The importance of family was evident throughout Holly and Chris’ wedding day at The Barn of Chapel Hill in Chapel Hill, NC. While standing before an exquisite flower ring (designed by the talented Jennifer Wood of Wild Flora Farm), the Bride and Groom recited their vows and presented their parents with gifts to pay homage to the positive role their families played in their lives. After they were introduced as husband and wife, Holly and Chris processed down the aisle to the vocal stylings of Ariana Grande to kick off the festivities. Prior to the dinner reception, the newlyweds participated in a traditional Chinese tea ceremony to honor members of their extended family. The Bride’s cousin provided commentary by introducing the family members and explaining the ritual to guests who were seeing a tea ceremony for the first time.

Cottage Luxe’s exclusive farm tables were decorated with beautiful pastel floral arrangements with greenery and a collection of watercolor prints painted by Holly’s Aunt, each one selected because they made the bride happy when she looked at them. Each place setting included a traditional Chinese gift box filled with candies for the guests to take home. After the guests enjoyed a delicious meal prepared by Catering Works, they were treated to a variety of decadent desserts all made by the Mother of the Groom. One of the most memorable moments of the evening was when the Father of the Groom expertly played the harmonica during the Mother/Son dance. Everyone did a double take when they realized the harmonica they heard playing was not a part of the song recording. Holly and Chris’ magical night conclude with guests of all ages dancing alongside the newlyweds to old school hip hop and modern rap spun by Joe Giampino of Morse Entertainment.

The love that Holly and Chris have for each other and their families was deeply felt by all who were in attendance and will no doubt continue on for many generations to come. Congratulations, Holly & Chris!

All Photos Courtesy of Jenna Goetz of A.J. Dunlap Photography

As featured in the 2019 Fall/Winter Issue of The Knot The Carolinas Magazine

Holly & Chris’ All-Star Wedding Team

Ceremony/Reception Venue: The Barn of Chapel Hill at Wild Flora Farm

Photographer: Jenna Goetz, A.J. Dunlap Photography

Videographer: Wei Ying, Story2Movie

Florals: Wild Flora Farm

Wedding Coordinator: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Catering/Bar Service: Catering Works

Officiant: David Kwon

DJ: Joe Giampino, Morse Entertainment

Tables/Chairs: Cottage Luxe

Lounge Furniture: Greenhouse Picker Sisters

Hair: Douglas Carroll Salon Raleigh

Bride’s Makeup: Karmilla Kim

Lighting: Get Lit Event Lighting

Photo Booth: Spark Photo Booth

Cake & Desserts: Mrs. Lo (Mother of the Groom)

Simple Tips for Easing the Tension with your Fiancé While Wedding Planning 

We are delighted to have Guest Blogger Amanda Turner contribute her talents to The Corner of Chestnut & Vine!

Simple Tips for Easing the Tension with your Fiancé While Wedding Planning 

Getting married is considered to be one of the most magical events of your life that you will never forget. Unfortunately, most of the time all that magic gets bogged down with stress from planning your dream wedding. During this time, tensions may start to right high between you and your fiancé. If you just got engaged, be proactive and follow these simple tips to ease some tension between you and your fiancé during this…exciting time!

Take a Break

Whether you’re knee deep in wedding planning or just popped the question, be sure to take a break. Whether you want to plan a mini vacation to relax, or just want to put wedding planning on hold for a couple of days, be sure to take a beat and enjoy being engaged.

Communicate with Each Other

Just like any relationship, healthy communication is key. When it comes to planning an event like your wedding, communication is even more important. There may be one person taking the lead on the planning, but that doesn’t mean your partner doesn’t want to have a say at all in the event. Be sure to keep each other in the loop and communicate if you feel like you aren’t being heard.

Learn Something New Together

Your engagement doesn’t need to be exclusively about wedding planning. Try and take some time to learn something new together. This could be anything from taking a cooking or dance class, to learning a new sport. Learn something new together, and you may even learn something new about each other in the process.

Exercise

Have tensions already started to run high? Exercise it off! Believe it or not, if you feel yourself getting stressed or anxious, you may be lacking exercise in your life. Think about all of the pent up energy you have been investing in getting stressed or irritated. More often than not, all that tension melts away after a good workout. Try working out with your partner to release some tension and also spend quality time with them.

Stay Organized

Staying organized is key in mitigating any type of stress, and your big day is no exception. Try having a notebook or binder dedicated to wedding planning and fill it with mockups, ideas for decorations, and of course meetings and events you need to attend to. Keep in mind that weddings can be a big expense, so organization is important now more than ever to keep your finances in check. If you are worried that unexpected home expenses may leak through the cracks, consider investing in a home protection plan to save on potentially costly repairs while you plan and pay for your wedding.

Hire a Wedding Planner

Depending on your venue, your package may already come equipped with a wedding planner. If your venue does not have a wedding planner, do not go at it alone. Between remembering floral arrangements, keeping your timeline in check, paying deposits, choosing the food, and juggling your day-to-day is hard. A wedding planner may be the best investment you make during this process, and it will save a lot of tension between you and your fiancé.

Remember “Why” You’re Doing This

Keep in mind that you are getting married because you love each other, not because you want to have a big party – even though that is a part of the fun. You want to be able to enjoy being engaged and looking forward to spending the rest of your life with your partner. So, if you feel like tensions are started to run high, keep that perspective in the back of your mind.

About the Author: Amanda Turner is a freelance writer and recent graduate who is exploring her passions through writing.

Photo Courtesy of Unsplash

Sara + Ashton | A Wedding at The Cloth Mill at Eno River | Hillsborough, NC | ThreeThirty Films

Click “Read More” to see how beautifully ThreeThirty Films captured Sara and Ashton’s stunning wedding day at The Cloth Mill at Eno River in Hillsborough, NC, as well as photos by Mag C. Photography.

Wedding Film Courtesy of ThreeThirty Films

Sara & Ashton’s All Star Wedding Team

Videographer: ThreeThirty Films

Photographer: Mag C. Photography

Wedding Coordinators: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Venue: The Cloth Mill at Eno River

Florist: Taylored Blooms

Caterer: Cook Shack Catering Company

Hair: The Loft Salon

Officiant: Logan Phillips

Ceremony Vocalist: Kelsey Barnard

DJ: DJ Tytan

Cake: Rachel Nicgorski

Rentals: CE Rental

All Photographs Courtesy of Mag C. Photography

Kaitlin & Chris’s “Game Night” Wedding Reception |NC State – Raleigh, NC

As high school sweethearts who went on to become loyal NC State Alumni, Kaitlin and Chris set out to plan a unique wedding day that encompassed their love of family, friends, board games, cards, cornhole and all things Wolfpack, and they more than delivered by treating their guests to a fun-filled Game Night themed wedding reception at the NCSU Dorothy and Roy Park Alumni Center on the southern shore of Lake Raleigh.

The bride and her attendants began their day next door at The State View Hotel where they had their hair and makeup expertly done by the Wedding Hair By Liz team. Their outdoor ceremony on Park Alumni Center’s beautiful brick plaza was officiated by the Rev. Kayelily Middleton, whose insightful retelling of Kaitlin and Chris’s love story brought both laughter and a few tears to all who listened. Following the ceremony, guests were treated to drinks, delicious appetizers, cornhole, bocce ball, board games and a surprise visit from NC State’s very own Mr. & Mrs. Wuf during the cocktail reception. Prior to the start of dinner, guests were invited to answer trivia questions related to the newlyweds, and the guest who proved they knew them best won a prize! To top off the perfect Game Night themed wedding, Kaitlin and Chris kicked off their dinner reception with a rousing game of “Family Feud: Wedding Party Edition” followed by “Family Feud: Bride’s Family v Groom’s Family.” It can easily be said that a good time was had by all – which is exactly what Kaitlin and Chris wanted!

Congratulations, Kaitlin and Chris! It was an absolute pleasure to help you coordinate such a memorable wedding that was unlike anything we had ever done.

ALL PHOTOS COURTESY OF FAITH TEASLEY PHOTOGRAPHY

Kaitlin & Chris’ All-Star Wedding Team

Photographer: Faith Teasley Photography

Venue: Dorothy and Roy Park Alumni Center at NC State University

Wedding Coordinator: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Hotel: The State View Hotel

Florist: The English Garden

Hair/Makeup: Wedding Hair by Liz

Officiant: Rev. Kayelily Middleton

DJ: Bunn DJ Company – DJ Ken Bloms

Catering/Bar: Dorothy and Roy Park Alumni Center at NC State University

Dessert Bar: Sweet Cherry Bakery

Rentals: CE Rental

Lighting: Simpsound DJ & Lighting

Special Guest Stars: Mr. & Mrs. Wuf

“ALWAYS” | Laura & Steve’s Romantic Winter Wedding | The Cookery – Durham, NC

Laura and Steve “Always” dreamed of having a magical wedding day, and on an early December evening, they turned The Cookery in downtown Durham into a romantic winter wonderland, thanks to the talents of renowned DC florist Kevin Canfield of K Aubrey Flowers, a close friend of the Bride & Groom. The delicate wintery whites of their candlelit ceremony were the perfect contrast to the warm navy and gold tones used throughout the cocktail and dinner receptions. Family and friends were treated to delectable appetizers and a savory dinner buffet expertly prepared by Durham Catering. Following a champagne toast and traditional cake cutting ceremony, Laura and Steve danced the night away with their family and friends to the sounds of DJ Damien Maass. The Newlyweds could not have asked for a more perfect beginning to their “Always”.

All Photographs Courtesy of Brian Mullins Photography

: First Look at The Durham Hotel

: The Durham Hotel

: Newlyweds w/ Close Friend and Floral Designer Kevin Canfield

: The Couple opted for a small cutting cake paired with a decadent dessert bar

: Seeing her Bride & Groom’s radiant smiles is why Erin loves her job!

Laura & Steve’s All-Star Wedding Team

Venue: The Cookery – Durham, NC

Photographer: Brian Mullins Photography

Floral and Decor Design: K Aubrey Flowers

Day-of Wedding Coordinator: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Caterer: Durham Catering

Bar Service: The Cookery

DJ: Damien Maass DJ & Video Service

Photo Booth: Spark Photo Booth

Rentals: American Party Rental

Officiant: Bob Bennett

Hair & Makeup: 140 Salon & Blow Dry Bar

Chalkboard Artist: Marika Wendelken Calligraphy

Cake: Rose’s Meat Market and Sweet Shop

Hotel: The Durham Hotel

Transportation: US Coachways

All Photographs Courtesy of Brian Mullins Photography

Christina & Lucas’ Memorial Day Weekend Wedding | Downtown Raleigh, NC

When planning their Memorial Day Weekend wedding in Downtown Raleigh, it was important to Christina and Lucas that their guests experience three things: good food, a great bar, and fun music. With the help of their all-star wedding vendor team and a distinct wedding vision, that is exactly what they delivered.

The sun shone brightly as Christina and Lucas’ family and friends gathered in the Courtyard tucked behind Gravy, one of Raleigh’s top Italian Restaurants, to witness the marriage of the Ohio bride to her North Carolina sweetheart. The bridesmaids wore blush dresses that were a perfect compliment to the gentlemen’s navy suits. The stunning blush and white bouquets were all designed by her talented bridesmaid, Valerie, and the Father of the Bride built the ceremony arbor.

It is often the unexpected imperfections that provide some of the biggest smiles on a couple’s wedding day, and so it was when their adorable flower girl got a sudden case of stage fright and made a bee-line for the sidelines. Impressively, her older brother didn’t miss a single beat and successfully carried his Aunt and Uncle’s wedding bands all the way up to the front of the aisle.

After the ceremony, the guests enjoyed risotto balls, antipasto and expertly made cocktails before heading to the reception in The Jiddi Space for a delicious family-style Italian meal. Afterwards they enjoyed an array of delicious desserts prepared especially for them by Gravy’s head chef. Once their guests were properly fed, Christina and Lucas led everyone back out to the Courtyard to complete their celebration with a night of dancing hosted by DJ Scotty Williams. It didn’t take long to realize that Lucas gets his impressive dance skills from his Mom when the two brought down the house with their surprise killer dance routine.

Christina and Lucas worked hard to give their guests an unforgettable evening of fun, and it was a joy to see them relish every second of their wedding day. What impressed me the most about these newlyweds is their innate ability to work as a team and their willingness to keep an open mind to new ideas so that their wedding would be their best day ever.

Congratulations, Christina and Lucas!

All Photos Courtesy of F8 Photo Studios

Christina & Lucas’ All-Star Wedding Team

Ceremony/Reception Venue: Gravy – The Jiddi Space

Photographer: F8 Photo Studios

Floral Design: Valerie Messmer

Wedding Coordination: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Catering: Gravy

Linen Rentals: CE Rental

Hair/Makeup: Cori Lee Style

Cake/Desserts: Gravy

DJ: Making Memories DJ Service

Transportation: Elevate Transportation

Tent/Dance Floor Rental: Dee-Jay Events

Julia & Corey’s Spring Wedding | The Graylyn Estate | Winston-Salem

The Graylyn Estate is a hidden gem located minutes from Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem, NC. As soon as they set their eyes on the main house of this historic property, Julia and Corey knew it was the perfect setting for the elegantly romantic wedding day they envisioned.

The sun shown brightly in the estate’s White Garden Terrace as the couple read their personal vows to one another before their families and closest friends. The Terrace’s natural beauty was magnified by the stunning floral bouquets crafted by the incredibly talented team at Green Bee Floral Designs. During the cocktail hour, guests were treated to a signature cocktail inspired by the Disney Cruise Line cocktail they were treated to on the night of their engagement. After enjoying a delicious meal expertly prepared by the Graylyn’s catering staff, Julia and Corey were especially excited to cut into their 4-tier lemon-blueberry wedding cake that was surrounded by 4 white chocolate satellite designed by Regi Originals. The evening finished with a fun night of dancing hosted by A&A Disc Jockey Service and a grand sparkler exit down the cobble stone driveway in front of the estate’s main house.

Congratulations, Julia and Corey! You successfully pulled off the perfect wedding that you always wanted. Thank you so much for choosing Chestnut & Vine to be your day-of wedding coordinator. It was an absolute honor!

ALL PHOTOS COURTESY OF DANIELLE FLAKE PHOTOGRAPHY

Julia & Corey’s All-Star Wedding Team

Ceremony/Reception Venue: The Graylyn Estate

Photographer: Danielle Flake Photography

Floral Design: Green Bee Floral Designs

Wedding Coordination: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Catering: Graylyn Estate Catering

Lighting Design: Sound Illusions Events

Hair/Makeup: Updo’s Studio

Cake Design: Regi Originals

DJ & Photo Booth: A & A Disc Jockey Service

Officiant: Reverend Kenny Compton (Groom’s Cousin)

Sarah & Christian’s Fall Wedding at Cross + Main | Youngsville, NC

On a gorgeous, sunshine filled Fall afternoon, Christian and Sarah were the first couple to be married at the newly christened Cross + Main (formerly The Boondocks before it was purchased by Rocky Top Catering) located in the quaint downtown of Youngsville, NC. The bride and groom, who relocated from North Carolina to Oklahoma so that Christian could continue his training with the U.S. Marine Corp, have Sarah’s parents and sister to thank for finding this small town gem 22 miles north of Downtown Raleigh. Cross + Main’s exposed red brick and pristine wood floors, which were immersed in a flood of natural sunlight, formed the perfect backdrop for an endearingly romantic wedding.

It was important to Sarah and Christian to make their wedding a family affair. They were married by the groom’s cousin under an archway built by the bride’s father that was cloaked with sheer draperies sewn together by the bride’s mother, and their siblings, nieces and nephew were all members of their wedding party. During the cocktail hour, the entire wedding party was shuttled to nearby Wake Forest for a photo session in Joyner Park. The majestic Carolina Blue sky made their outdoor photoshoot absolutely perfect. Once the wedding party returned to Cross + Main, guests were welcomed into the reception hall that was beautifully decorated with cranberry and navy linens and gorgeous floral centerpieces masterfully designed by Youngsville’s own Brandi’s Bontanicals. After a fun evening full of dancing and laughter, the newlyweds exited under an archway of sparklers that led them to their getaway car – an immaculate 1941 Packard Sedan owned by a local couple that the bride’s parents just happened to meet at a car show. It was the perfect way to end a wonderful celebration of such a sweet, thoughtful and loving couple.

Congratulations, Sarah and Christian! Thank you for entrusting your wedding day to Chestnut & Vine. It was a pleasure to work with you both and to see all of your hard work come to fruition.

All photos courtesy of Photographs by Stephanie

Sarah & Christian’s Wedding Team

Ceremony/Reception Venue: Cross + Main | Youngsville, NC

Photographer: Photographs by Stephanie

Floral Design: Brandi’s Botanicals

Wedding Coordination: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Catering: Cannon Catering

Bartending Services: POUR Bar Services

Decor Rentals: Classic Party Rentals

Hair/Makeup: Joanne Maye Makeup Artistry

Cake Design: Sweet Memories Bakery

DJ: Avalanche Sound & Lights

Transportation: Carolina Livery Service

Classic Car: Chad & Demi Goldman

Kristi & Doug’s Summer Wedding at Duke Chapel & Washington Duke Inn – Durham, NC

When I met Kristi and Doug at the April 2015 Southern Bridal Show at the NC State Fairgrounds, I knew immediately that I wanted to work with this lovely, sweet natured couple. Doug’s willingness to attend a bridal show with his winsome fiancée spoke volumes for how much this couple loves each other and will work well together as a team. So, I was thrilled when they chose Chestnut & Vine to be their day-of wedding coordinator.

Their story began when Kristi, who met Doug during her employee orientation at Duke Hospital, invited him to attend Sunday mass with her at the iconic Duke Chapel. By the end of the evening, Doug happily clued into the fact that he was on a date and astutely asked her if she would like to go out again. The two have been inseparable ever since.

When it came time to plan their wedding, Doug and Kristi had their hearts set on getting married in the very church where they had their first date, but as luck would have it, Duke Chapel was booked a year in advance and about to begin an extensive restoration project which would delay their wedding an additional year. Not to be deterred, this undaunted couple camped out in front of Duke Chapel for three days in North Carolina’s merciless summer heat and joyfully walked away with a July 2016 wedding date. As it turns out, their long engagement was worth the wait because their dream wedding venue, the renowned Washington Duke Inn, was available on the very same day.

One year later on a gorgeous, sunny afternoon in July, Doug and Kristi were married in the Duke University Chapel before friends and family who traveled from near and far to celebrate their big day. Kristi’s bridesmaids all wore blush-colored, floor length gowns of their own choosing. The mix of dress styles, patterns and colors were a stunning backdrop for the gorgeous bouquets of English Roses and succulents superbly arranged by Bea Miller and her team at Floral Dimensions. The newly restored Chapel organ filled the sanctuary with its rich, melodic tones as Kristi was escorted down the aisle by both her Mom and Dad and again when Kristi and Doug recessed out of the Chapel for the first time as husband and wife.

Later in the evening the guests were greeted by the newlyweds as they arrived to the cocktail reception outside of the Washington Duke Inn’s Presidents Ballroom. After a delicious dinner prepared and served to perfection by the Washington Duke’s Catering Staff, Kristi and Doug invited all of their guests to join them out on the dance floor. Never have I seen a bride and groom effortlessly dance together more than Doug and Kristi did that night, which set the tone for a high-energy, unforgettable evening of fun hosted by the one and only Randy Bennett from Bunn DJ Company. When the time came to send the newlyweds off to begin their life together, the guests formed a tunnel of twinkle lights for the couple to run under as they made their grand exit in a decorated golf cart driven by the bride herself.

Congratulations, Kristi and Doug! You could not have planned a more elegant, flawless wedding that celebrated who you are and will become as you journey through your life together.

SPECIAL THANKS TO BRIAN MULLINS PHOTOGRAPHY FOR SHARING KRISTI & DOUG’S STUNNING WEDDING PHOTOS

Kristi & Doug’s Wedding Team

Ceremony Venue: Duke University Chapel

Reception Venue: Washington Duke Inn

Photographer: Brian Mullins Photography

Day-of Wedding Coordination: Chestnut & Vine Day-of Wedding Coordination

Floral Design: Floral Dimensions

Catering: Washington Duke Inn

DJ: Bunn DJ Company – DJ Randy Bennett

Cake Design: Sweet Memories Bakery

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I am a Diehard Cubs Fan and Proud of It!

I often wondered if I’d ever see today. My beloved Chicago Cubs are playing in the World Series for the first time in 71 years, and I could not be more thrilled to see this dream come true. Over 30 years ago my dear friend, Marnie (who was a bridesmaid in my wedding), introduced me to a handsome 2nd baseman named Ryne Sandberg, and thus began my first longterm relationship filled with feelings of hope, admiration, heartbreak, disappointment, joy, and blind faith that better days are just a spring training season away. As a kid I collected baseball cards, rarely missed a Cubs game on WGN, faithfully listened to the gospel of baseball according to announcers Harry Caray and Steve Stone, and proudly attended a Cubs game at Wrigley Field before a night game was ever played. My Dad contends that to this day he has never seen a bigger smile on my face than the day I attended my first ballgame in the friendly confines of Wrigley Field, and every detail that I soaked in that day from where we sat (behind the Cubs’ bullpen), to who stood on the pitcher’s mound (Rick Sutcliffe and Lee Smith), and who hit the winning home run (the one and only Shawn Dunston) still plays in my memory like a highlights reel. And of course I was completely giddy when I got to see my crush “Ryno” in person with my very own eyes.

In an interview earlier this week, fellow Cubs Fan Bill Murray perfectly expresses what it means to be a Cubs Fan and is dead on when he says, “To root for a team that never won, it’s just character building.”

I am proud to be a Diehard Cubs Fans because we:

Are Devoutly Loyal. While fans of other sports teams openly question my sanity for cheering on a team whose own fans endearingly call them “The Lovable Losers”, my devotion towards my Cubbies has never once swayed. There is no such thing as a “Fair Weather Cubs Fan.” We support our team no matter the score or our place in the division standings;

Understand the importance of Relishing the Moment because we never know when the next “W” might come along. It could be tomorrow or it could be next month, so you had better appreciate and celebrate today’s victory while you can; and

Are Eternal Optimists. In my hometown, a common conversation starter is “How ’bout them Cubs?,” and whether you are commiserating with a fellow Cubs fan over the team’s string of bad luck or engaged in an animated disagreement with a rival Cardinals fan, it’s pretty much a guarantee that the conversation will end with the Cubs fan confidently stating with a gleam in his/her eye, “Wait ’til next year!”

This 2016 Cubs Team is a true blessing that is so much fun to watch, and a text I received this week from Marnie sums up exactly how all of us Diehard Cubs Fans are feeling this season, “For all the fans that have come and gone and never saw what we might see, I am grateful.” Me, too, Marn!

So it is with great pride and feelings of good fortune that I ask to all who will listen, “How ’bout them Cubs?!” No need to wait for next year. Next year is finally here!!

Wedding Insurance – A Wise Investment or an Unnecessary Expense?

Recently one of my brides asked if I thought wedding insurance is a smart purchase or an unnecessary extra expense. This is an excellent question because the larger the wedding industry gets, the harder it is for engaged couples to determine which “wedding extras” are essential or a waste of money. According to TheKnot.com, a basic wedding insurance policy typically costs between $155-$550 and will cover venue deposits, vendor no-shows, and the inability for an essential bridal party or family member to attend the wedding due to weather, illness or military deployment. A supplementary policy will need to be purchased if you want the insurance company to cover (1) the total cost of re-staging your wedding should your photographer/videographer be a no-show or the original negatives/video are damaged or lost; (2) your wedding bands*; (3) special attire (wedding gown, groom’s tux, etc.), and/or (4) your wedding gifts.

[*Your engagement ring is not covered by wedding insurance. When your fiancé presents you with your gorgeous engagement ring, your first call after you phone your parents with the good news should be to your insurance agent to purchase Personal Article Insurance. This is insurance I urge every engaged couple to purchase.]

In my opinion, there are four instances when a couple should strongly consider purchasing wedding insurance:

DESTINATION WEDDINGS REQUIRING AIR TRAVEL

If your wedding is taking place outside of the U.S. (Europe, Mexico, the Caribbean, etc.) and the vast majority of your guests and bridal party will purchase expensive plane tickets to get there, your wedding investment should be protected from unexpected flight delays on account of weather or political discourse. When U.S. travelers booked their European vacations in April 2010, I doubt any of them thought that an Icelandic volcano eruption would keep their flights grounded for nearly a week. [Note: Travel insurance and wedding insurance do not cover the same losses. Discuss with your insurance agent which of these policy types best protects your wedding investment.]

SEASONAL/REGIONAL WEATHER IS A CONCERN

Nothing is more romantic than saying “I do” while standing on the white sandy beaches of the Carolina Coastline or atop a breathtakingly beautiful peak in the Blue Ridge Mountains, unless of course Mother Nature decides to serenade you with a hurricane or blizzard on your wedding day. If you are getting married during a month when the locals regularly describe the weather forecast as “iffy”, purchasing wedding insurance is a sensible way to defend yourself against Mother Nature’s twisted sense of humor.

ILLNESS/DEATH IN THE FAMILY and MILITARY DEPLOYMENT

Planning a wedding naturally increases an engaged couples’ feelings of stress and anxiety, but emotional stress is compounded exponentially when there is a chance that your nuptials may need to be rescheduled due to an essential bridal party or family member’s serious illness or possible military deployment. Finding room in your budget to purchase wedding insurance will at least bring your anxiety level down a notch knowing that you will not be out a significant amount of money should you need to change your plans at a moment’s notice.

Just like other forms of insurance, deciding whether or not to purchase it is a personal decision that requires you and your fiancé to weigh the benefits and the risks. If you do to decide to purchase wedding insurance, I recommend getting quotes from 2 or 3 insurance agents and ask them to thoroughly explain what is and (even more importantly) what is not covered by the wedding insurance policy.

Tempe & Stuart’s Traditional Southern Wedding – Louisburg, NC

Tempe and Stuart were married on April 16, 2016 in the bride’s hometown of Louisburg, NC. Since the bride and groom both reside in Wilmington, I had the pleasure of working closely with Tempe’s mother, Anne, on all of the final details. It was quite the family affair with 370+ guests in attendance with some guests traveling from as far as Jackson Hole, WY to celebrate Tempe and Stuart’s big day.

Nieto Photography 2016

Weather conditions could not have been better for an outdoor reception that included a traditional Southern barbecue made to perfection by Louisburg’s own Cook Shack. The weekly forecast predicted rain for their wedding day, but thanks to the Father of the Bride and an old Southern tradition, Carolina Blue skies and billowing white clouds shined brightly all day on the festivities. In order to guarantee that rain would not fall on his youngest daughter’s wedding day, Tempe’s Dad buried a bottle of bourbon at the site of the reception exactly one month before the wedding. Once the party was underway, he dug up the bourbon bottle and presented it to the couple during his toast. Thanks to that bottle of bourbon, not one drop of rain fell the entire day!

Congratulations, Tempe and Stuart! Your celebration was one that Louisburg will never forget!

All photographs courtesy of Chris Nieto of Nieto Photography.